Is this normal white male behavior...what is going on with him!?? real answers please?

OMFG! I've been through this exact same experience a gzillion times with white guys and what's funny is I thought it was because they might be struggling accepting that they might be gay or whatever or that they're a white guy liking a black guy and it's hard for them to accept but damn; now to find out this even happens within the str8 community. yea, it must just be a white guy thing. White guys need to stop f*cking sending mixed messages and grow the f up. You don't want me, fine. You want me, fine. JUST MAKE UP YOUR D@MN MINE SO WE CAN ALL DO WHAT WE WANT TO DO AND LIVE OUR LIVES AND NOT BEAT AROUND THE EFFING BUSH.