Does Gemini frequently blow HOT AND COLD?

Welcome to being involved with a gemini. (but they're not all that bad hun, he might just be a jerk, and doing what GUYS do) As a gemini, we have crazy mood shifts with our feelings when it comes to basically anything and especially with people. I wouldn't really try to understand this situation any deeper than to just let you know that they're flighty sometimes and can go from being close to feeling very distant. I don't know why we do this, but it's just a thing that we can't control. I would just go with it and try to be open and honest with him and see how it goes. But don't come off pushy, We hate pushy people when were interested relationship wise.